Cousins: A special connection

A cousin is a relative with whom you share common ancestors. First cousins share grandparents, but all cousins share a family history bond that goes far beyond that.

If you have a really close cousin, you know that the relationship can be very special.

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The relationship between cousins is often a powerful cross between that of family and friends.

Growing up, they make special visits just like friends, bringing with them excitement and joy. I always loved visits from my cousins, as they bounded in with new games and tricks. They brought an outside world with them, full of new ideas from their own childhood experiences.

My son and his first cousin, born only a month apart!

As cousins grow, it becomes easier to appreciate shared family ties and a common past. Most often your parents grew up together and were raised with the same values and beliefs. As they say in my family, “We come from the same stock!”

You know your cousin will always be there for you, and that you can confide in him or her. They are often the most objective advisers.

Cousins provide support and friendship. Above all, you know they will always be there, and that your relationship will last a lifetime.

In modern times, it has become easier than ever before to stay in touch with extended family, and to make sure that you both know what is happening in each other’s lives. Share family stories on a joint family site, and keep updated on birthdays and life events.

Cousins are also a great resource for family history research. They may have new information – that you didn’t know – about family members, or may have heirlooms passed down to them. It’s a great bonding experience to work together to share and preserve your common heritage.

Do you have a cousin who you’re especially close with?